While Juniors events were traditionally for 'under 40s', if you are under 50 in the Hamptons you seem to qualify. We keep pushing it. So do most of our single male friends in their 40s. We still go to Junior Committee events because the standard Hamptons charity event attracts an AARP-qualified crowd.

If you have single houseguests and don't want to entertain this weekend, here are two good choices. Note the dueling after parties:

Southampton Hospital 'Club Cabana' 3rd Annual Associates Party
The younger set is invited to join the storied 'By the Sea' party at 9:30pm for dancing and cocktails. Skip all the boring donor stuff and dance until midnight. Tickets are $150 in advance, $175 at the door.  Includes the after party at the Pink Elephant. Buy Tickets.

Teach for American 2nd Annual 'Clambake & Cocktails' Benefit
Beach party featuring calypso music and a 'Claws on Wheels' clambake on Indian Wells Beach in Amagansett. Starts at 6:00pm with an after party at Boutique. Sounds fun. Buy Tickets.